Instant Chemistry! :)
It’s interesting how attraction works. Yesterday, while shopping for some groceries for my mum, I meet a cashier. She was a girl of 17-20, and I can’t say I’m 100% sure of this, but I think she flirted with me
Being the flirtatiously-impared guy that I am, the best I could come up with was a lame comeback to her jokes… *acutely embarassing now that I think about it…*
After the initial suprise of suddenly being transported from thinking about what I would like to eat for lunch, to being rudely tossed into the ‘flirting game’, I started paying more attention to her. Found out that she wasn’t a bad-looking chick, actually. Quite cute, in fact
And then an inexplicable thing happened: I actually began to feel attracted to her the more we talked. Weird how this happened, considering I know nothing about her at all!
Which got me thinking, isn’t it odd that we can know some girls for months, or even years, without ever developing a tinge of attraction to them, while you can instantly develop a kinda crush on a complete stranger!
So for fun, I’m now trying to see whether I can pin-point exactly why I suddenly felt compellingly attracted to that girl. Unless one’s a hypocrite, one can’t deny that looks have a lot to do with this. I don’t think I would get tongue-tied just trying to find a comeback to impress her if she looked like something the cat dragged in. That’s the painful truth, sadly. I feel that everyone has a certain ‘type’ of girl/guy that they’re naturally attracted to, and it so happened that she was kinda my ‘type’. A little too young, perhaps but still quite a good fit to the kind that I like. In fact, what I found peculiar about myself was that I probably wouldn’t be attracted to a girl, even though she’s a pretty lass, if she wasn’t my ‘type’. Odd…
The second thing which I feel strengthens the initial physical attraction phase has got to be the girl’s personality. It quickly became quite apparent to me that she had quite an endearing friendly, if a little naive, personality. I don’t think that looks are enough to sustain interest in a person, supermodel quality though they may be.
But alas, how much could I ask about her while purchasing 2 cartons of eggs?
Had to say goodbye much too soon, IMO. Luckily, I’m due to get my mum a new bottle of orange juice soon. Yay!








